In the Lord, however, woman is not independent of man, nor is man independent of woman.
1 Corinthians 11:11
This is an important point. We’re all interdependent upon each other. It’s not a patriarchy. Men are not only dependent upon men. We all need each other.
We’re all different. We have unique giftings, strengths, weaknesses, and personalities. That’s why the church is more of an organism than an organization.
For as woman came from man, so also man is born of woman. But everything comes from God.
1 Corinthians 11:12
There are no grounds upon which to state that men are more important than women in God’s kingdom. We may have different roles in the family, but neither gender is a higher order of creation.
We have to realize that we all came from God. He’s the Creator. We are His property. Humans do not belong to other humans – we are never to be seen as objects or property.
That means that in everything, we bow to the will of God. That even includes the areas of our preferences. I may prefer a certain style of music in church. This doesn’t mean that everyone who has another style is wrong, they’re just used to a different culture.
I believe that the Holy Spirit was able to speak through Paul, even though he may not have personally understood what he was writing.
Judge for yourselves: Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not the very nature of things teach you that if a man has long hair, it is a disgrace to him, but that if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For long hair is given to her as a covering. If anyone wants to be contentious about this, we have no other practice — nor do the churches of God.
1 Corinthians 11:13-16
Paul was inspired by God to preface this section with the exhortation to judge for yourself. Then he put his preferences down in the form of questions. He may have thought that the answers were obvious – and they were within the context of his culture. What he didn’t realize was that the answers might be different in the various generations and cultures that would carry on the Gospel message.
The phrase, the very nature of things, means the observable way things work, whether it be in nature or society. If you’re talking nature, there are animals that God gave longer hair to the male than the female – I’m thinking about lions for one. So other cultures may answer this question differently.
Another point I see is that Paul clearly states that he had no other practice. That’s a word that means tradition. To the apostle’s knowledge, there was no other tradition in his society or any of the churches he experienced.
His society had a tradition of long hair and coverings for women. Consequently, the churches in that culture followed suit. I don’t believe that these questions that Paul asks constitute a spiritual law for all cultures, generations, and peoples.
The key is that everything comes from God. He has ownership. If I acknowledge Him and seek His will and pleasure, then the Lord will lead me down the right paths.
Question: How is the blessing of God based upon Christ’s work and not my appearance?
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