“And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
This statement confuses a lot of people. They don’t know what this has to do with believing and receiving from God. It also causes some people to ask, “If I don’t forgive someone, does that mean that I’ll not be saved?”
There’s a big reason for all this confusion. It stems from our modern concept of the word, forgive. Our generation has no idea what the scriptural word means.
When we say that you need to forgive someone, it’s a watered down version. We mean that you need to tell the person that you’re not mad at them anymore. Everything’s okay now and our relationship can move on from whatever caused the problem.
The biblical word for forgive has nothing to do with the above. It literally means to pick up and throw away. It’s like what you do with your trash. You throw it out to the curb. Then it’s removed, never to be seen again…ever.
With that understanding, now we can look at what Jesus is saying to His disciples. Remember, the Lord is talking about standing in prayer. This is about believing God for the desires that He’s placed in our hearts.
When you’re in that place of prayer, you’re having an intimate time with the Lord. At this time, the Holy Spirit brings to your attention that you’ve placed a roadblock between you and another person. It could be for any reason, but usually, it’s for a perceived hurt against us.
At that point, the Lord simply wants us to remove that wall that we’ve erected. I realize that this is not an easy thing to do.
“Lord, I remove the issue that I have been holding against him or her right now. From here on out, with your power, I’ll treat them like it never happened.”
This goes against our human nature. That’s especially true because it has nothing to do with the other party’s desire (or lack of desire) for forgiveness. It’s all on my part.
But understand, there’s a blessing that comes from this. It paves the way for God to remove anything blocking His blessing from getting to me.
The word translated as sin, in the above verse, is the word side-step. You’re on the right path following Christ. But you made a misstep. You haven’t lost your salvation. You don’t have to “get saved” all over again.
However, there is something that could be keeping you from receiving all that God has for you. In Christ, God dealt with all of your sin before you were ever born. Now He’s asking you to do the same thing for a fellow human being.
If you’ll remove the thing that’s blocking you from blessing them, then He will remove the thing blocking your blessing. I think that it’s well worth the trade. Of course, in our flesh, we might not agree with that.
This is why we need the power of the Holy Spirit working in us. It’s also why the Lord said that it needed to be done while we were standing in the place of prayer.
So, if there’s anything the Lord’s dealing with you about, take care of it quickly, and let the blessings flow freely again!
Question: How has God’s forgiveness changed your life?
© 2018 Nick Zaccardi